I talk a lot about how important it is to make your presence known in a group, especially in a university setting, with my friend. In my case and in the case of most of the international students who are currently studying here, it is quite vital to begin with a solid footing whenever you are required to work with your peers. I learnt it really late the hard way, so I try to warn about the dangers of starting late. It usually helps later on, as going for hospital and clinic visits isn't as stressful once you develop a rapport with any of your local peers.
Now, I learnt yesterday that this kind of method can also backfire. Over-enthusiasm can serious maim, if not kill. Essentially, I forced my hand and anointed myself as group leader for a project.
I basically jumped into the spartan pit without needing a kick in the ass.
I walked the plank without any coercion.
I pulled all the triggers on my own firing squad.
I helped the undertaker make the noose.
I sourced the firewood for my own funeral.
(Many more analogies that mean I AM A DUMB-ASS)
Bro love your vibez. You got this!
ReplyDeleteThank you, strange person who I have never met, for your words of kindness!!
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